In earlier times, we stopped long before the news of the murder of wives for their husbands until it seemed like a phenomenon, and because it was introduced to our communities, it was the most present in the scene pages and the movies were in some movies.
Today, the scene has been reversed and we hear and read about the couples who kill their wives, the news that is now insignificantly high.
And the important question remains... who kills who... and why did some marital relationships get this tragic way?
Marriage supposed to be based on housing, affection and compassion, in some cases it turns into conflict, anger and violence with which the language of dialogue is absent, and disagreement becomes more serious than just a passing conflict, in some cases becoming a crime that reveals a profound imbalance in the human relations system.
This calls on us to spread a culture of mutual respect and early intervention to contain violence before it becomes a tragedy that destroys an entire family.
The fact that a housewife was killed in Alexandria two days ago by her ex-wife and that her father and mother were killed with a white weapon because of his intrusion and the fact that she had obtained an enabling sentence for the apartment and tried to deny him the sight of her children was not the first and would not be the last as long as the culture of violence and revenge prevailed.
How the marital relationship between the two partners and the presence of children turns into a sphere of disagreement, how the human person loses his ability to see another partner in life and sees him as a deduction that must be punished, and how feelings of anger and hatred turn into a crime resulting in more pain, loss, collapse of a whole family and an oppressive wound to the conscience of society.
The means of confrontation and the reduction of the phenomenon require the blockade of these crimes with a comprehensive societal strategy that goes beyond the security solution, with the inclusion of compulsory marriage programmes for the cohabitants to ensure psychological integrity, the dissemination of a culture of equality and the peaceful resolution of disputes.
